I am a Family constellation Facilitator and a Reiki healer. I work with you and your family line to help resolve an existing issue in your life. This is done through family constellation work. To me family constellation work is about:
- Being heard
- Being seen
- Being loved
- Being held
- Feeling safe
- Finding your power
Prior to facilitating family constellations, I worked as an online marketing entrepreneur, where I helped clients increase their online business and ROI. I changed course after my first Reiki session and went on to to learn and practice reiki. I worked with a number of clients providing healing, change and internal shifts through Reiki.
Over time I trained as a heal your life teacher, which is an off shoot of the Louise Hay philosophy of training and teaching. I am in complete agreement with the writings of healers like Lise Bourbeau and Louise Hay and believe that our body is constantly speaking to us. I agree that pain and discomfort is one of the ways that the body draws our attention so we can go deeper in understanding what is really going on inside of ourselves.
I did my first constellation in 2018 and was absolutely amazed at what unfolded for me after the constellation. As I started to see significant shifts in my life, I felt the need to know more about family constellation work as a form of therapy.
I trained as a family constellation therapist with Spanda under Annie Cariappa and Colette Green who have both directly trained with Bert Hellinger. The constellation work done at holding connections follows the Hellinger lineage.
I facilitate family constellation workshops with the belief that change is possible, that the universe is constantly working at moving us to a better place. We just need to believe and take the first step towards our desires.
The process of change only happens when the heart feels it. The mind thinks, analyses and rationalises but the heart feels what it feels regardless of what the mind tells the heart. You cannot apply thinking to change a feeling especially feelings based on unconscious beliefs. Such change is short-lived. To bring change that lasts you need to dive deeper to clear the subconscious blocks through which you are operating.
Studies have shown that when our beliefs about ourselves change, the world outside of us also starts to shift and change so that it can match what is going on inside of us. It is not easy to change an unconscious belief or a perspective, especially one that we have carried all our life.
Through family constellations we work with the reality of what you are feeling so that you can experience what you long for and get in touch with the feeling that the longing brings. This brings about real change because it is felt from within.
Longings for each person differ. Here are a few of the wishes that people ask for in Family Constellation workshops
- I have plenty but there is never enough for me.
- I wish for money to flow in my life.
- I wish for a thriving business.
- I wish for abundance.
- I feel angry all the time. I wish for stillness in my life.
- I would like to do a constellation for pain and swelling.
- I want to feel loved.
- I want to feel secure.
- My art is not selling. I want my work to be sold.
- I want to be acknowledged.
- I often feel fearful. I wish for safety.
Through Constellations you work on fulfilling what you long for in your life but are otherwise unable to do so, no matter how hard you try. You start to clear subconscious blocks that block your movement towards the longing. You get a clear perspective as to why a wish seems out of reach.
With changed perspective you start to see a movement towards a resolution of the issue you worked on and bring change that lasts.