My quest for perfection

Perfect is such a perfect word and brings to mind lovely images of completion. Yet the real world is not like that. Things don’t wrap up as our minds want them to. Yet, so many of us strive for perfection. I chased it for a long time and finally gave up by telling myself that […]

The Sound of Silence

There is a certain certainty when you feel like you are a part of the process of life. When nothing seems too much or too little. The porridge is neither hot nor cold. It is just right.  I find this happens most to me when I am in nature as a participant and not the […]

I here, You there

I here. You there – this is one of the most profound statements I learned while doing constellation work. For me this sentence is not about separation but more about my willingness to remain within my limits and at the same time to understand when someone else has made a small step in the boundary […]